And so today my eldest child turns ten. It feels like a blink of an eye in some ways, and a beautiful eternity in others.
What a neat kid this boy is: I am daily impressed with what a
tender, patient and thoughtful big brother he is. He certainly has a
knack for teasing, but it is never with a mean spirit... always mischief
only. And when it's clear he's hurt someone's feelings, he stops. He
apologizes.
He is so helpful and kind to Joe and I. He's FUNNY
as heck. He's brilliant, of course... and it's so fun to see where that
mind takes him sometimes.
My hope for my kiddo, as he turns the
corner from "little kid" to "big kid", is that he remains tender and
kind. That he finds a place in this world for his sharp, funny,
inventive mind. That he redefines "nerd" or "smart kid" to be something
everyone can relate to and wants to come join in with him. That he
continues to be social and friendly to everyone, and that he doesn't
feel the need to close the door on us, his family, to stew in
adolescence too soon. That he knows we are his biggest cheering section.
I hope he keeps giving his siblings a chance to join him. And I hope he
deepens his awareness of empathy, charity, inclusion, and love-- that
he continues to learn of his Savior and strives to be more and more like
Him.
He's well on his way. And I am the luckiest mama that God
saw fit to place him in my care for these first couple of decades of his
beautiful life.
He has been the BEST first grandchild. I love him!
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